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Once, I saw a Facebook profile of someone he ended up sleeping with, and she was absolutely stunning.
That was hard for me because I couldn’t help but compare myself to how I perceived her online (most of which was just illusions filled in by my very own brain, of course). Just because he was the cause of my hurt, it didn’t mean I couldn’t wait to run into his arms and have him comfort me. In monogamous relationships in the past, I was incredibly jealous all the time.
We build and modify the relationship—and the rules—as we go. We started with very few, and now we have a few more that we’ve devised along the way.
There have been instances where something has felt uncomfortable, or times we’ve felt hurt, so we've modified.
It wasn’t until Adam and I created our arrangement that I realized I could actually have it all: commitment and freedom. I know lots of people who have very successful monogamous relationships and are really happy together.
We talk to each other as friends, and nothing is restricted from conversation, which means sometimes I ask him dumb questions I already know the answer to—like, “Do you still love me? ” (obviously yes, and obviously no, in that order)—just to hear it come from him.
When I really stop to think about it, I know that there’s very little chance that he’s seeing anyone who is going to be better for him than I am.
We’ve removed the ownership that can come with a conventional relationship.
They also welcome multitudes into their bed for great big orgies.
Adam and I keep our lovers separate (more on that later).We make a point not to spend too much time with secondary partners. But that's something we've never really had to make an effort for.